So I got into a conversation with a new friend about my sexuality. I am bi, I told this person that and a whole can of assholery opened upright inside of their mouth. All whole mess of stupidity came out. "Which one do you like more? Girls or guys?", " I don't care what anyone says, you have to like one sex more than the other", So how could you like both, I mean who would want to be in a relationship with someone who likes both sexes?" I sat back and let the steam escape from my ears and thought of the many times my bisexuality invoked such ignorance from people.
There was the one time with the cute girl who flat out told me that she didn't want to see me anymore after our first date because she doesn't date "fence sitters". Then there was another date that told me she would rather be with someone who is sure about their sexuality. And let's not leave out all of the guys who think that i am the automatic threesome experience. These experiences make me angry as hell. Who the fuck are these people to tell me what the fuck my sexuality is???!!!!!???? People see a couple of girls kiss for some male attention and automatically all bi women are doing it to be fun...... this shit irks me.
Bisexuality is as natural as being gay or straight and yet the concept of a person being equally attracted to men and women is lost on so many people. I'm tired of people telling me i'm confused, or that i need to make up my mind about my sexuality. My mind is made up, I'm bi, i'm not confused and i'm damn sure not sitting on a fucking fence. Bisexuality is not some invalid concept. Many people are bi, and it's ok. Anyone who says different can kiss my entire ass!!! Everyone need to leave us bisexuals alone.
Friday, August 6, 2010
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